Friend: "you know, when you're calling and he's not answering that means he's hiding something."
ExGf: What do you mean?
Friend: Sa loob ng panahon ng paghihiwalay niyo, you're trying to call parin but he doesn't answer your call. Meaning He's hiding something.
ExGf: At paano mo naman nasabi yan?
Friend: Because that's what I do when I cheat. But in your case, it can no longer considered as cheating dahil hiwalay naman na kayo and he's free kaya hindi ko pa din makita ang point mo sa pagtawag mo sa kanya.
TRUE LOVE....
Iba-ibang pananaw ang mga tao jan.
* Ang iba, True love thing can consider as kalokohan na likha lamang ng mga romantic movies and books. -Non believer of LOVE.
* True Love is the best thing that could happen to anyone, Gives meaning to one's life. It enables us to share our hearts with someone so we could find our own happiness and fulfillment. -Banat ng mga Believers :D
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Why do men can easily dump women? (kabaligataran)
Bakit may mga humuhingi ng space and personal time?
Bakit may mga nasasakal?
Because most women and also men do not know the rules of the game.
Ito ay isang Laro na nangangailangan ng precision and planning. It is a game of power.It involves manipulation of emotions to control the mind. It is a game kung saan ang unang nagpakita ng affection ay nag gi-give up ng total control. Nag mimistulang isang aso na nakatali at sunud-sunuran lang sa amo. Sa relationship na ikaw ang parating tumatawag at siya ang palaging tumatapos ng usapan niyo. Yung ikaw ang parating nakakaalala ng mga significant dates niyo like birthdays, anniversaries. Ikaw lang din ang nagbibigay ng gifts and surprises. Yan yung mga consequences ng pakikipagrelasyon ng walang self-respect. Kaya nga women. Us. should learn to love God, and ourself first (ganon din naman sa guys) para nga di macloud ang judgement mo. Kung patuloy kang aakto ng ganito, being so pathetic, Hindi ka gagalangin ng mga lalaki (babae), You will always be treated like a trash. And you will grow old alone. All by yourself.
"Ano ba ang mali kung mahalin mo ng sobra at higit higit ang isang tao?! What's wrong in calling or visiting him because you're worried? What's Wrong with caring so much and wanting to do everything for him?"
-> Oh well, nothing is wrong as long as you know your limitations, Self-respect. Yenno, handling a relationship, it's just a product of plain logic and common sense. In everything you do,may it be in life or love, isip ang kailangan pairalin at hindi emosyon (sabi ni boypren) hoho! Tignan mo ang nangyayare. Masyado mong pinaiiral ang emosyon mo kaya hindi mo nagagamit ng maayos ang isip mo sa pag ha-handle sa mga relationships mo. That's what we have to work on, controlling ourself. Dahil kung hindi mo gagawin yan at patuloy ka sa pagbbigay ng 'lahat' para sa mahal mo, at the end.. kapag wala na siya, malalaman mo nalang na wala na rin palang natira para sa sarili mo... Be a woman who is in control of her life and love. Akala kasi natin ang gusto ng mga guys e yung pinapamper natin sila, Oo nga gusto nila yun pero lahat ng sobra, mali, nakakasakal. Baka umaabot na sa tipong para ka na niyang nanay. Your guy would be overwhelmed with your too much love na nag lelead sa pagkakasakal :|
If it's too late, at iniwan ka na nila, ok lang na malungkot, ok lang na magdalamhati, pero siguraduhin mo na sandali lang. Normal kang tao kaya nasaktan ka, pero wag mong alagaan yung sakit, be independent, Please try not to be the type of girl that cling on and hope for a guy na nagpaalam na sa kanila, Move on with your life and find your happiness again.
Sa iba na nahihirapan pa din at iniisip na tanga sila kasi they can't move on, No your not stupid kasi todo bigay ka mag-mahal kaya kung minsan hindi mo na makita yung right time and situation kung kelan mo kailangan mag give-up and let go. Lahat ng bagay ay may dahilan, siguro you need to suffer so much pain para makita mo ang importansya ng discipline, dedication, self-respect and perseverance.And as for your failed relationship with your Ex, maybe.. he's just not the right person for you and that there's someone out there that you are meant to be with. Malay mo trial lang yan, para pag dating na sa true love and destiny mo, you know what to do, to handle things much better diba? Maybe God, He just trained you. Para sa relationship mong bago. Smooth na. :)
--> If you really wanna attain your GOAL, you have to stay focused. HINDI pwede yung dinadaya mo yung sarili mo :) God bless!
How to Love – Lil Wayne Song Lyrics
